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The Science of Haters with Jay Baer

March 28, 2015 by Niklas Myhr 4 Comments

Jay Baer closing keynote Hug Your HatersIn his closing keynote at the Social Media Marketing World 2015, Jay Baer stressed how important it is to embrace your critics and “Hug Your Haters” by responding to every complaint on every channel basically all the time. By doing so, companies can significantly increase sentiment metrics such as customer advocacy and conversely, if you fail to do so, customer advocacy will go down according to recent research on “The Science of Haters” that he has conducted in partnership with Tom Webster at Edison Research. He even went so far as saying that “answering complaints can have massive financial impact on your business.”

Niklas Myhr and Jay Baer at Social Media Marketing World 2015
Giving Jay Baer a good luck hug before his keynote 🙂

Reasons why companies do not respond to all complaints range from an unwillingness to dignify complaints to an inability to manage a large number of complaints or even find them in the first place. Still, Jay Baer suggests that with top management commitment and sufficient resources allocated, a company can, and should, respond to all complaints. He used KLM as a case study and mentioned that when the ash cloud from the Icelandic volcano wreaked havoc on flights a few years back, their CEO committed to responding to every complaint. Now they have a full 150 full-time employees dedicated to responding to online mentions across all channels.

Social Media Marketing World

An interesting distinction made by Jay Baer was the one he made between so-called onstage versus offstage haters. Offstage haters are those who complain about an experience through a private channel first and herein lies the opportunity for companies to help them out before they go public with their displeasure. Offstage haters skew towards an older demographic and they don't complain as frequently as others and when they do so, they tend to do it from a computer, not from a mobile device.

Jay Baer closing keynote Hug Your Haters with slideOnstage haters, on the other hand, are younger, more mobile and tend to also complain more frequently. When they do so, they go to public channels first and expect not only the company to respond, but also that others will see and perhaps chime in on the conversation about the brand. For onstage haters, it is important to have an audience that is watching the duel between the complainant and the company and that is why many review sites are humorous, colorful, and bold.

“Hating is a spectator sport.”
– Jay Baer
White Castle 2 Star Review
This is a 2 star review! How would their 1 star reviews look like?

One benefit of taking complaints seriously is that these can serve as an early detection system by which you can learn about customer sentiments that may become a bigger issue for more people down the road unless you do something about it. Jay Baer also pointed out that most complaints have at least some kernel of truth in them and studied carefully, complaints can provide extraordinary insights.

On another note, Jay Baer brought up Warby Parker as an example of a company that not only responds to complaints but has as its goal to respond to every question posted online. That is, being responsive doesn't have to focus solely on the negative remarks.
In sum, Jay Baer pointed out that having haters is not the problem, ignoring them is. Instead, by choosing to embrace haters, companies have a great opportunity to build customer advocacy.
Jay Baer closing keynote audience
Enthusiastic audience about to enjoy Jay Baer's closing keynote

Consider getting the Virtual Pass to Social Media Marketing World 2015 which should provide a rich library of materials for the year to come, cannot recommend it enough!

Disclosure: Some of the links on this website are so-called “affiliate links” but please note that I only recommend products or services that I either use to satisfaction personally or am confident will add value to my readers based on endorsements by people I trust.

Filed Under: Social Media, Marketing, Social Business Tagged With: Featured

How Mitch Jackson Wins Social Media Friends and Influences Juries

March 2, 2015 by Niklas Myhr Leave a Comment

Mitch Jackson at Chapman UniversityMitch Jackson, California Lawyer of the Year 2013, of the law firm JacksonandWilson.com, and founder/CEO of Human.Social shared perspectives on engaging and building relationships with clients, friends, and communities to my students and these are some of the knowledge bombs that he shared:

  • In 1996, he realized the importance of the web as a lady called his law practice after seeing his URL in the Yellow Pages and apparently that impressed her enough even though she never used a computer! You need to learn how different clients prefer to communicate. Once he won over a client as the previous lawyer just left voicemails to someone who only communicated via text.
  • Mitch Jackson group at Chapman University Niklas MyhrThe famous Cochran Law firm wasn't responsive to inquiries by a client of theirs and when Mitch's firm proved more attentive, they took over the case eventually resulting in a $5,500,000 jury verdict for wrongful death.
  • You need to be good at what you are doing but all other things being equal, building social platforms and being a social business as described by Brian Solis in What's the Future of Business, allowing people to connect is often the determinant of who gets the order.
  • Mobile technology creates business opportunities for companies big and small to connect and build relationships globally. Peter Diamandis new book Abundance talks about how those who change their mindset can tap into an increasingly connected world.
  • Mitch Jackson on Engaging RelationshipsBob Burg's book of turning Adversaries into Allies is the best people skills book Mitch Jackson knows and junior lawyers he mentors first need to read this book and let Mitch know what they got out of it before he spends time with them.
  • David Meerman Scott's The New Rules of Sales and Service lays out how you can succeed on social platforms with a focus on service and genuine helpfulness. Mitch is also featured in the book in a whole chapter dedicated to so-called newsjacking. Newsjacking is the idea of interjecting yourself and your business into hot current news stories and Mitch can attest to it working very well. Thanks to his prompt commentary on hot news topics, he has landed press, TV, and social media coverage eventually resulting in more business for his firm. To succeed in newsjacking, Mitch cautions that you should have at least something partially relevant to add to the conversation based either on your experience or perspectives. Mitch also always tries to take the high road on divisive issues by maintaining a positive and constructive tone.
  • Mitch Jackson at Chapman University 2Mitch's six communication principles for success on and off social media are inspired by Dale Carnegie's classic book How to Win Friends and Influence People:
    1. Become genuinely interested in other people.
    2. Smile. Check yourself, deflect, reflect, and select your options regarding when to take action. Take smart actions and don't dwell on bad decisions you made, keep smiling.
    3. Remember and use other people's names. Mentioning people's names works online as well to separate yourself from the noise. He uses Nimble which pulls in from connected social media feeds what you are talking about and up to this week. To “Nimble” someone is often more specific than when you Google somebody.
    4. Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves. Listen 60-70% of the time, ask open-ended questions, and let people speak.
    5. Talk in terms of the other person's interest. Phrase and categorize things in their best interest. Ask questions about their goals and constraints so you can best help them.
    6. Sincerely make the other person feel important. People do business with people they enjoy being around and making them feel that you care is a great way to develop rapport.

Mitch's final advice to students. Learn how to say no in a respectful manner and start building an online platform today! Do you believe that these principles apply also in your life or career? Please share in the comments!

Disclosure: Some of the links in the post above are “affiliate links” but I only recommend products or services I either use to satisfaction personally or am confident will add value to my readers based on endorsements by people I trust.

Filed Under: Chapman University, Marketing, Social Business, Social Media Tagged With: Featured

Buffer recommends Hootsuite, "Lethal Generosity" alive and well

October 26, 2013 by Niklas Myhr 4 Comments

Buffer and its Founder/CEO Joel Gascoigne today referred disgruntled customers to their main competitor, Hootsuite. This post discusses this display of “lethal generosity.” For those who don't know, Buffer is a social media productivity tool allowing users to stock up or fill up a buffer of content to share that will then be disseminated over time on various social media platforms you connect to their service. This way, one's followers will not be overwhelmed by a number of updates at once followed by complete silence. I have personally found the service useful even if I have not consistently filled up my buffer as of late. Today, I was impressed by the service nonetheless. I got an email from the founder “Joel from Buffer” with an alert about a problem:
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Filed Under: Marketing, Relationship Marketing, Social Business, Social Media Tagged With: Adam Grant, Buffer, Joel Gascoigne, seth godin

Staple Yourself to the Customer Experience

February 20, 2013 by Niklas Myhr 2 Comments

Stapler

Today's wakeup call was provided by Brian Solis with his new blog post “The 5 Pillars of New Media Strategy.” Brian argues convincingly that we all should stop looking for a magic formula or success recipe to guide us in our social media travails by simply arguing that it all depends on who we are serving or building a meaningful relationship with. While I myself occasionally fall prey to the temptation to offer list type “secrets” such as in “3 Keys To Social Success,” I do agree that too much of the focus is placed on the social media delivery side. As a consequence, the tendency is to be less concerned about how our social media efforts will be received by customers. [Read more…]

Filed Under: Relationship Marketing, Social Business, Social Media Tagged With: #LinkedOC, brian solis

What Social Media Can Do

January 28, 2013 by Niklas Myhr Leave a Comment

In my first social media marketing classes today, students were asked to identify various uses of social media, preferably with a business use case in mind. If you cannot read my handwriting… here comes some of the prominent uses of social media:

  • Communication/Conversations
  • Connection/Network
  • Humanization/Personalization
  • Marketing Research/Opportunity Identification
  • Brand presence/Awareness creation
  • Reminders about ones existence
  • Employee relations and employer branding
  • Collaboration
  • Communities
  • News

Social media is quite multifaceted in other words! Not bad, huh? So, are you leveraging most of these uses or are you limiting yourself?

Filed Under: Chapman University, Social Business, Social Media

Selling Social Media to CEO Laggards

January 24, 2013 by Niklas Myhr Leave a Comment

Social Media Campfire recently asked me to share some tips on how the value of social media can be effectively communicated to CEOs and other decision makers who are genuinely skeptical towards the business value of social media. It turned out to be a very interesting evening also for me as the Social Media  Campfire participants had plenty of insights to share on this topic as well based on their extensive experiences trying to get the message across. Based on our discussion, one thing that I think is noteworthy, is the one of overcoming the pride factor of CEOs who have been truly skeptical.

Social Media Campfire

Now we are dealing with True Laggards

Given that social media no longer can be considered a new phenomenon, one thing to recognize is that executives who are still holding out by refusing to adopt any social media tools for business purposes represent a shrinking group of executives that could only be classified as true laggards in the adoption process. One implication of this is that for them to change their minds, it is going to take a considerable amount of persuasion as many of them likely have expressed deep skepticism toward social media now for a number of years. Thus, they would have to swallow some pride in order to make such an adjustment and for some, this may not come easily.

One way of dealing with this concern is to give them something to take pride in at the same time as they start adopting social media. For example, one can acknowledge that some of the critiques of social media that many skeptics have expressed could have been at least partially warranted. Security issues of an employee sharing too much information have hurt some companies. Others have indeed suffered from employees wasting too much time on social media without much return on their investment to show for it, at least not in the short term. Customers already suffering from information overload not wanting to connect with suppliers on an ever-increasing number of social media platforms. Etc. This way, executives may be better able to start a more nuanced discussion today regarding how social media potentially could add value to their business and in what ways they should act in order to avoid the traps.

A big thanks to all participants at the Social Media Campfire and to the hosts Kathi Kruse, Marieke Hensel, and Chris Voss plus the beautiful locale at Coworking Fullerton / Branding Personality and for more about our discussion, please also check out the recap by Kathi Kruse!

Filed Under: Social Business, Social Leadership, Social Media

Seller Beware and Persuasion by Ambiverts

January 23, 2013 by Niklas Myhr Leave a Comment

Last week, Daniel H. Pink gave a talk to Linked Orange County at the Irvine Barclay Theatre where he shared some insights from his new book “To Sell is Human.” In the following, I comment upon some of these ideas or findings:

1 in 9 Work in Sales

Daniel Pink at LinkedOC

Pink started out by stating that the number of salespeople haven't changed with the emergence of technology. 1 in 9 professionally active Americans work in sales and that ratio has stayed the same over several decades. Perhaps that is true but I also think that a key question is how the nature of the sales profession has changed and how technology is playing an increasingly crucial role to facilitate the sales cycle for salespeople. That being said, it is indeed noteworthy that his studies confirm that so many people still today have their primary professional focus on sales.

Aren't We All in Sales?

Then Dan Pink addressed the other part of the pie, the 8 of 9 professionals who are not having variations of the word sales on their business cards. He argued that those people, too, are in sales as his research shows that professionals today spend about 40% of their time convincing and persuading others, whether they be bosses, partners, suppliers, etc, to get them to do or to support various activities, goals, etc. That we are all engaged in sales to various degrees may be worth emphasizing lest we forget. This should serve more as a reminder than as a news alert to many, I presume, at least to my students (I hope!).

Seller Beware!

In line with what many others have pointed out in the recent years, Pink noted the increasing power of buyers armed with more realtime access to ever-more information to aid their shopping comparison processes. Dan Pink raised the bar further in this information arms race, though, when he argued that buyers now not only have achieved information parity with sellers but that they actually in many cases now know more about the market than the seller, even if the latter lives and breathes the market every day! Thus, the call for a “Seller Beware” alert as some naïve and unsuspecting sellers may otherwise be taken advantage of. Talk about a role reversal! I do believe that this is an interesting point as some sellers may have become so complacent thinking they know their industry inside and out so that they are no longer closely attuned to trends and competitive moves, at least not as much as some very motivated buyers may be.

Daniel Pink and Niklas Myhr

If this were the concern of just a few buyers it may not be so harmful to a seller. However, we could expect many of these well-informed buyers using new technologies to disseminate such information in increasingly effective ways to guide also other, more mainstream, buyers to the best deals in town. Clearly, some such über-informed buyers may turn, or are turning, their market expertise into bona fide businesses themselves and could perhaps no longer be accurately classified as mere buyers.

Persuasive Selling by Ambiverts

Daniel Pink at LinkedOC

Another issue raised by Dan Pink that stood out to me was the research into the relationship between the degree to which a salesperson is extrovert and salesperson performance. Citing some fascinating recent research by Adam M. Grant* at the Wharton School, it was found that the best performers were neither extroverts nor introverts, but rather those salespeople displaying a little bit of both (or neither?). Hence, such salespeople could be labeled as being ambidextrous in this regard, or “ambivert” as Grant calls it in his research. If this finding holds up in more studies, it finally may signal the end of hiring and promoting salespeople based on their extrovert nature in favor of those who keep a somewhat lower profile. Even if there are many other books on sales (e.g., Consultative Selling) which call for a significant listening dimension among salespeople, Pink does a good job in illustrating how an “ambivert” salesperson can operate successfully. At least for large parts of their interaction with clients, salespeople need to allow for sincere listening and learning about the true customer needs at the same time as good salespeople also ought to know when to make their moves, an important aspect where the complete introverts may miss the boat.

* Grant, A. M. 2013. Rethinking the extraverted sales ideal: The ambivert advantage. Forthcoming in Psychological Science.

Filed Under: Sales, Social Business Tagged With: #LinkedOC, Daniel Pink

Brian Solis virtually at Chapman University

January 2, 2013 by Niklas Myhr Leave a Comment

Recently, Brian Solis, Principal Analyst at the Altimeter Group, took the time to share some of his insightful perspectives with my Internet/Social Media Marketing class via a Skype conversation. Please check out the video and/or read the interview excerpts further below.

From Social Commerce to Syndicated Commerce

Brian Solis suggests that the meaning of social commerce depends on your vantage point and will be different based on whether you are focusing on information or monetization:

“Information commerce is priceless and that's what makes social media so valuable. The more conversations, the more potential you have for influence, the more positive experiences you can promote, the better the influence aids in awareness, consideration, pre- and post-commerce.”

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Filed Under: Entrepreneurship, Innovation, Social Business, Social Media Tagged With: brian solis

When I Almost Kissed Amber Naslund

April 25, 2012 by Niklas Myhr Leave a Comment

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Amber Naslund, or @AmberCadabra as she is known on Twitter, coauthored “The NOW Revolution” (with Jay Baer) which details how businesses can get faster, smarter, and more social. In this video interview, she offers her take on the role of social media in B2B (business-to-business) marketing. She also gets very excited to the extent that we almost kiss after my question at 1:28, check it out!

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Filed Under: B2B, Social Business, Social Media, Supply Chain Management Tagged With: @AmberCadabra, #LinkedOC, Amber Naslund, Video

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