The Social Media Professor

  • Home
  • About The Social Media Professor
  • Speaking
  • Blog
  • Contact

The Science of Haters with Jay Baer

March 28, 2015 by Niklas Myhr 4 Comments

Share
Share
Pin2
Tweet
2 Shares

Jay Baer closing keynote Hug Your HatersIn his closing keynote at the Social Media Marketing World 2015, Jay Baer stressed how important it is to embrace your critics and “Hug Your Haters” by responding to every complaint on every channel basically all the time. By doing so, companies can significantly increase sentiment metrics such as customer advocacy and conversely, if you fail to do so, customer advocacy will go down according to recent research on “The Science of Haters” that he has conducted in partnership with Tom Webster at Edison Research. He even went so far as saying that “answering complaints can have massive financial impact on your business.”

Niklas Myhr and Jay Baer at Social Media Marketing World 2015
Giving Jay Baer a good luck hug before his keynote 🙂

Reasons why companies do not respond to all complaints range from an unwillingness to dignify complaints to an inability to manage a large number of complaints or even find them in the first place. Still, Jay Baer suggests that with top management commitment and sufficient resources allocated, a company can, and should, respond to all complaints. He used KLM as a case study and mentioned that when the ash cloud from the Icelandic volcano wreaked havoc on flights a few years back, their CEO committed to responding to every complaint. Now they have a full 150 full-time employees dedicated to responding to online mentions across all channels.

Social Media Marketing World

An interesting distinction made by Jay Baer was the one he made between so-called onstage versus offstage haters. Offstage haters are those who complain about an experience through a private channel first and herein lies the opportunity for companies to help them out before they go public with their displeasure. Offstage haters skew towards an older demographic and they don't complain as frequently as others and when they do so, they tend to do it from a computer, not from a mobile device.

Jay Baer closing keynote Hug Your Haters with slideOnstage haters, on the other hand, are younger, more mobile and tend to also complain more frequently. When they do so, they go to public channels first and expect not only the company to respond, but also that others will see and perhaps chime in on the conversation about the brand. For onstage haters, it is important to have an audience that is watching the duel between the complainant and the company and that is why many review sites are humorous, colorful, and bold.

“Hating is a spectator sport.”
– Jay Baer
White Castle 2 Star Review
This is a 2 star review! How would their 1 star reviews look like?

One benefit of taking complaints seriously is that these can serve as an early detection system by which you can learn about customer sentiments that may become a bigger issue for more people down the road unless you do something about it. Jay Baer also pointed out that most complaints have at least some kernel of truth in them and studied carefully, complaints can provide extraordinary insights.

On another note, Jay Baer brought up Warby Parker as an example of a company that not only responds to complaints but has as its goal to respond to every question posted online. That is, being responsive doesn't have to focus solely on the negative remarks.
In sum, Jay Baer pointed out that having haters is not the problem, ignoring them is. Instead, by choosing to embrace haters, companies have a great opportunity to build customer advocacy.
Jay Baer closing keynote audience
Enthusiastic audience about to enjoy Jay Baer's closing keynote

Consider getting the Virtual Pass to Social Media Marketing World 2015 which should provide a rich library of materials for the year to come, cannot recommend it enough!

Disclosure: Some of the links on this website are so-called “affiliate links” but please note that I only recommend products or services that I either use to satisfaction personally or am confident will add value to my readers based on endorsements by people I trust.

Share
Share
Pin2
Tweet
2 Shares

Filed Under: Social Media, Marketing, Social Business Tagged With: Featured

About Niklas Myhr

Niklas Myhr, PhD, CSP, The Social Media Professor, is an international TEDx and keynote speaker who has served as an advisor to HSH Prince Albert II of Monaco. Dr. Myhr is a CSP® (Certified Speaking Professional™) and a Certified Virtual Presenter offering keynote presentations, talks, workshops, and executive education programs at conferences, businesses, public sector organizations, and universities. Dr. Myhr has spoken in Europe, in the United States, and in Asia, and his expertise on social media and digital marketing has been featured in BBC, The Washington Post, ABC, CBS, and NBC. Dr. Myhr is Google’s #1-ranked “Social Media Professor," and he teaches at Chapman University in California. Niklas Myhr holds a Ph.D. in Marketing from the University of Virginia, and an MS from Linköping University in Sweden.

Comments

  1. Jay Baer says

    March 28, 2015 at 9:47 am

    Niklas – great to see you, and thank you for this wonderful summary!

    Reply
    • Niklas Myhr says

      March 30, 2015 at 1:11 am

      Thanks Jay and good times, indeed, keep up the good work!

      Reply
  2. Mitch Jackson says

    March 29, 2015 at 12:00 pm

    After all, haters gonna hate and ain’ters gonna ain’t. Best said here https://youtu.be/yRPCQ6rH8-M 🙂

    Reply
    • Niklas Myhr says

      March 29, 2015 at 1:31 pm

      Thanks for the clip, Mitch, a good one! Anyway, I have also at times suggested a similar approach of not dealing at least not with the worst forms of “feedback” and Jay Baer brought up the now conventional wisdom of not stirring up the fire and even dignifying the worst forms of complaints with a response. Still, he argued that you’re better off by always responding to all complaints across all channels. One reason was to possibly save that particular customer, another to hopefully reduce their degree of negativity that could hurt you in terms of word-of-mouth, and also to show spectactors of the conversation that you were game for feedback and even could respond with some humorous twist as he did himself when he responded to a 1-star review of his own book.

      Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Featured Posts

Chapman University, Digital Marketing class, Niklas Myhr, The Social Media Professor

Chapman Social Media Aid

*** Thanks for all the submissions, our Call for Projects now closed as all student teams have picked projects to work with. Even if your organization didn't get picked this time, … [More...]

BBC News Interview: Australia’s Teen Social Media Ban

Australia’s teen social media ban gave me a chance to discuss, live on BBC News directly from my Chapman University office, why an all‑out prohibition on platforms for young people … [More...]

Robb Fahrion speaking at Chapman University, Influencer & Social Media Marketing class, Niklas Myhr, The Social Media Professor

6 Influencer Marketing Lessons from Real Life

Pleased to have Chapman Class of 2011 alumni Robb Fahrion, Co-Founder & CEO of Flying V Group, visit both my classes at the Argyros College of Business and Economics on … [More...]

Newsletter

The Social Media Professor

Orange County, California
United States

Also at NiklasMyhr.com

Contact

Please email me at niklas [at] thesocialmediaprofessor.com if you have any questions.

Copyright © 2026 · Agency Pro on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in